Lately my mom has been asking us (our family), "What do you see when you look at me?" My answer: "I still see my mom." My boys will simply answer, "Grandma".
Hair or no hair :) I still see beautiful blue eyes and a smile that lights up a room.
Thinking deeper, I see my hero. I see strength, faith, compassion, courage, determination, and hope. I see stubbornness, sarcasm :) wit, curiosity, love, and empathy.
I see a FIGHTER, a SURVIVOR, and a BRIGHT FUTURE.
My question now to you, "What do you see when you look at my mom?" Please leave a comment and let her know, or send her a note. She appreciates your faith, prayers and support more than words can express.
I see a remarkable woman who is always willing to listen, advise, laugh, and inspire others. I see a fighter. I see a true FRIEND ~ and one I GREATLY miss seeing every day at work. Kandace, I think about you constantly and miss you every day. Hang in there and stay strong. I love you!!
ReplyDeleteI see a beautiful woman who is such a fighter, with determination, courage and hope!!! She is someone who has so much love and kindness, who is such an inspiration to everyone! I also see a true friend to everyone!!! She is a very special person to me and I love her very much!!! I just hope and pray that she will stay strong and keep fighting! I know she can beat this!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen I met Kandace for the first time I could tell she was a fighter and after seeing her over the next few weeks she confirmed what I had thought. It didn't matter what was placed before her she faced it with great courage. I have been keeping track of her progress through this blog (thanks Natalie) and she is amazing! Kandace you and your family will always hold a special place in my heart.
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I haven't seen your mom in a very long time. But I loved growing up in the same neighborhood and ward as you guys. She was always so nice and would always say hi to me. She was amazing then and I'm sure that she is amazing now! KEEP FIGHTING!!!!
ReplyDeleteI see the most incredible woman ever! I see a wonderful friend, a very faithful, beautiful, wonderful human being! I also see "my hero," a woman with more determination and strength than a person should have! You are an inspiration to me, I love you with all my heart. You are in my thoughts a prayers, always!!! Most important you are a fighter, and you will continue to fight, because that's what you do!!!! I love you, and think of you everyday! April
ReplyDeleteI see a great example! Some with a great amount of courage and strength and a fighter. I truly look up to you Kandace and always have. Keep fighting! Your an inspiration!
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I see a warm,kind,gentle but mischievous smile. A warm, gentle laugh that is contagious. I have known Kandace since high school and she is a fun, fun, kind person.I see a wonderful wife to Randy who I also went to high school with. A wonderful mother to Natalie (who I had in YW, Bo & Derek who I had in preschool) and a Fun, wonderful grandma to who I have had some in preschool. So... through all of these generations I see a wonderful example of a woman who has never faltered. A beautiful lady full of love,life, faith, and grace. A fighter as we all have seen by now. Keep it up Kandace.Remember I told you you can beat this. We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
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I see a beautiful lady so full of love and light that I want to visit everyday. The love and light radiate from her into me and make me feel better for a day or so and then I want to be in her presence again. I have never seen Kandace more beautiful. PS. I really dig her mom also. I see beauty and love and a bright light.
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The question to me Kandace, is what do you see? Do you see your loving husband, wonderful kids, and adorable grandchildren? Do you see all those who love you? Do you see in all of us that "difference" you have made? I do. And I know you do too. I know you can beat this swear word of a thing called cancer! Give it hell!!
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Kendra
I see a very special friend. I used to see and work with every day. You were a delightful
ReplyDeletecompanion when we worked together. You were someone that made coming to work an experience to look forward to. You were the greatest confidant and supporter. You are an excellent teacher who appreciates her students. Your students remember and appreciate you. I run across them frequently. You are one of the reasons I most miss teaching at BATC.
Now I seldom see you Kandace but I know our Friendship will never end. I miss the joy and
light you bring to my life in person, but you are always with me in my heart. I pray for your
full recovery every day.
You have such a special Family too. Natalie, what a wonderful daughter you are.
I just had my gallbladder out, and I can't begin
to imagine how hard it must be for you, Kandace, to do this long term stint to recovery. I'm a wimp!
Your progress is a miracle and you are one Great Lady. Love You! Ruth
Kandace, I have a lot of faith in the Healing Powers of the Savior. I see him in your life and Family. If you can survive Sports Center for all these years, Those Brian Lesions don"t have a Chance. We love you. The Godderidges
ReplyDeleteKandace, you have always been such a great friend and co-worker. Even though we don't work together directly, we've created a bond that has really been important to me. Whether we were passing in the hall, seeing each other in the cafeteria, or sharing common students, you have always lifted me. You understood! I see a woman who has inspired me and given me great advice many times. I miss you and pray for you and your family!
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I see a beautiful smile from a loving friend. It was so good to see you in the cafeteria last week. You were the highlight of my day! I really miss shopping with you in the Bookstore. When you get better, you better come in here so we can go shopping for your grandkids again. Lots of Love! -Lyndie
ReplyDeleteI see a wonderful friend who has been a shoulder I could lean on. I think of you often! Keep up the fight. I look forward to hear your voice and see your smile. My prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI see an amazing woman whom I cherish as a dear friend! I am happy to hear that the "no visitor" sign is down so that I can come visit:) Kandace you are an anchor to us all and a wonderful example of faith and fight!!! Thanks for being my friend!!
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Sheri Egbert
I see my second mom. Who put up with me and Bo and dealt with us growing up :) You are amazing, and i don;t think you really understand just how AMAZING you are. You have raised some amazing kids. Keep fighting and keep being the beautiful person you are. You are my hero. And we are praying for you always! Love Haley
ReplyDeleteI see an awesome woman who I love and admire and miss living by. Though it was several years sgo, my Megan still considers you a second mom. We love you and you are in my prayers daily. Your concern for others and sense of humor help make you so special. love, love, love you!
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